Flakey

*Disclaimer:If you are reading my blog, you must know ahead of time that I realize I am not perfect and that is beside the point. So, it won't help to point that out to me if you choose to comment.

I guess some of this perspective comes from the family I was raised in. We always did what we said we were going to do and if something came up, we would fix things so that we could be where we said we would be.

I am really annoyed with people flaking out on things. This isn't really something that affects me as much as it affects my husband. He has people that say they will do things with him and then back out, flake out, or just forget that they had plans and never contact him. Of course he never would say anything to anyone, but I see how upsetting it can be to him. As his wife, it bothers me a lot.

My husband is pretty spontaneous and will do whatever anyone wants to do on a moment's notice. Luckily we have each other because we are both that way. But there are people who just can't seem to make a decision about anything. Things are always up in the air. I just don't get it. I have pretty much just bitched about it to my sisters and mom for years now, but I have this forum, so I am putting it out there. Maybe he doesn't pin people down enough? Maybe he doesn't get pissed off at them like I would and never ask them to do anything again after so many tries...He's a better person than I am. Hopefully he knows who always is ready at the drop of a hat to go to a movie, a walk, the beach, an RV trip or whatever. I guess that is why we are married.

I am just sick of people treating him with little respect. These people really have no idea who they are, and if they do, that is even worse.